Relations on the Internet, are or are not effective

Today there are millions of people through a computer, taking advantage of internet technology, establishing relations of friendship and love and many good results that this new type of love has brought.

Human beings have an enormous need for close ties, perhaps we have not seen what lies ahead in terms of relationships. Technology has changed our conventional way of acquiring things, but yet to go going to buy bread the bakery to go to the doctor we go to the hospital, went to fix the car to a mechanic, the trend now is to find partners to connect to internet! But where was, for some of that old routine appointment at the cinema, or the cafeteria , or other party, and became "chat at 10? For some it is so obsessive that if I damaged the internet in the home or office I have to find an internet cafe to talk to Menganita. It seems that the relationship was with the machine and not a human being.

Moreover, there are those that are projected as Brad Pitt or Angelina Jolie by pretending to be the antithesis of what they are.

Others resort to more naive "I'm normal" when asked how physically. What a disappointment when you know personally and from "I'm normal" is normal on Mars.

Proliferation of websites where people Contacts unknown sex are to begin a friendship and sometimes even a relationship.

New generations come with a computer under your arm and feel very comfortable releasing your feelings and experiences in a virtual area where the language is short and flash a common denominator.

Apparently the fact write to someone you do not know raises an intense romantic feeling. The physical distance rather than appease the sentiments fueling point to idealize the person you're chatting, because the computer is open to imagination and fantasy you want and you will have no incentive to return you the most harsh and cruel reality, you idealize widely.

Unlikely and difficult to establish how much of hallucination and illusion exists around such relations, but we know that people fall in love on the Internet with more passion and fervor that the conventional field.

If you already love someone is when they say that love is blind ¨ ¨, relationships online computer does all the work for a blind person by another, which is hidden behind a screen.

At that point, and given the intensity of the relationship, the meeting generated much anxiety and nervousness, but the personal meeting can be a success or trigger a total failure. What is certain is that the Internet lets you meet people and to classify them according to your affinities, aspects in common, way of communicating, so closer to the fundamental first step in which two people meet, know and are attracted for each other.

But there are people who are not satisfied with a nickname, and some retouched photos on the web to meet their potential partner, for them has emerged a revolutionary system is called fast quotes: ¨ ¨ Speed Dating, which is based on interviews Express 5 minutes long with several candidates for that after a certain time, a company that matches arbitrary exercise of filter with telling people what you are compatible or you have another chance of reencontrarte appointment.

Well that is the human side of the chat, as people know. There are others who are ages in order to enter certain chat rooms. There are guys who want to pass as adults, and adults who are moving from Pelao's. This is the dangerous part. And I'm sure many have heard some of these horrific stories in which a kid fugándose ended with a stranger who promised heaven and earth.

What is happening that we do not want to risk it and enjoy human suffering within a relationship of flesh and blood? Will we fear we hurt in previous relationships, and the pain can be mitigated in conversation with a stranger which can handle just by pressing a button when we feel vulnerable. Saying goes: eyes that see no heart, no feeling.

Some would say that is an option for those who do not have time to go out and socialize, or for those who do not have enough money to invest in an appointment or for those who feel short of attributes. And what if I go check how that sense of loneliness that makes some company and seek refuge on the web. And I speak not only of young people, adults talk about in search of something they need. That we can call you relax, infidelity, lack of commitment, fun, lies and deceit.

What is interesting and fun when we move from the virtual human and we contact the unknown (a) and we realize that the fantasy can become reality when two souls were sincere in the pursuit of emotions

TESTIMONIALS

Hi, I'm a grown woman and I have experience in dealing on the Internet, the experience I saw that lie easily and still love me, I started as a game and saw that he was my friend who followed the game, and end I was in love, and not chat with anyone, I hope he comes to 10 hours of difference to mine, said, said that love will come to visit me.

Only in their work and communicate with me if you have that opportunity. I have called by phone, which he does, I've already said what bothers me, especially their lack of consideration to my schedule, because it says if you have a lot of work and we chatted for sale online, but without more, provided calls and gives me an apology, but continued doing the same thing at every opportunity and I have doubt the veracity of his love swears that having me, it's me that you are doubting what I have seen that they lie easily? O my instinct tells me the truth that he just plays with my emotions?

I do not want to be unfair and to terminate the relationship that makes me feel good when we are together, talking and less chance of losing him to come to know my home, accusing him of something that might be just my suspicion, I appreciate your guidance really feel he loves me, I do not doubt it, just respect

WITNESS TWO

I discovered that my husband is looking for couples over the Internet to pass separately lied age, with respect to work, and their way of being, until I tired and missed again after 6 months, is not the same for me. The Internet is a double edged sword where anonymity can be behind the lie and hurt the loved ones and destroy a family.

TESTIMONY THREE

For me it was, was and is the most wonderful experience to have known so many beautiful people on the Internet, I do not think that everything is bad, that penalty for those who have suffered disappointment, as this occurs in such relationships as virtual in the face, but everything is in knowing which pages can be reached.

I carry more than two years with a prestigious to a page where you make a minimum follow-up in every aspect, but rather to make a picture to approve a preliminary study and ask for details of their lives and there are different kinds of people, some who pay a monthly value and users are classified as gold, silver and other standard and by the time I joined I went straight to gold.

H Ice an annotation saying that it did not receive if users were not golden, it is assumed here that are not registered persons seeking anything other than the entering into a relationship and those are the people that fit my way of being and since that time been a beautiful end of the year ending in marriage.

Both the coast as we said they were from the beginning, we were like, short, fat, tall, black, white, separated, widowed, whether we smoke or not, if we take. etc. and under these parameters so long our relationship and my respect for him is the same as if you had a person here at my side and that part of it too, has already been twice, has helped me economically, I has presented to his family and is an excellent person.

I do feel able to recommend most of all the adults who seek this option, is a unique and wonderful experience and I have many friends with whom we are writing almost always celebrate our birthdays

TESTIMONY

I think the pages of virtual relationships are the best we have been able to invent, on May 30 she married a Dutchman and I think it is wonderful to be more I could have found.

My husband left me alone with two daughters and in the street, I had to start from scratch, whom I met in front, what I tried, I was faithful, and attended, etc., the man who never knew the internet, but I thought since the principle in which I had sworn.

On one occasion a friend invited me to enroll in a page and half joking most of all I did, and keep current with something else, I picture a normal, as was then, as I made my profile that was actually, I just wanted to be visited by people from Europe and United States and one day I had the answer for more than 40 caballleros in a week and had 150 of these was discarded one by one until I got which is now my beloved husband, from the beginning he was honest, told him I was on the street, I played hard my situation, I had two daughters ...

I realized I did not care two months and nothing came to meet me, helped me in everything he could. Financially and with my daughters and then returned to his country and continue to talk all day, all with a translator that neither He knew my language, nor I to him, but that we came to love.

In December came to me and ask me to be your wife, I wore my house all the necessary help my daughter with all their expenses paid my wedding and he was the most beautiful, it seems the magazine and I'm happiest woman the world, that man besides my eye, my daughter loves him as if I will respond with the same affection to his son.

If I was asked my opinion of it, just open a page to recommend to all people who feel lonely, they believe that after a separation or widowhood, and have no other opportunity

This experience is so pretty and is not ashamed that it is a normal, or insane, or stupid or fantasy is real.